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Real-Life Decision Making

There's a knock at the door. You find a young woman who has read about women religious and wants to take a tour. It's common to have visitors come by for tours, seeking financial assistance, spiritual guidance or shelter. But you are a little taken aback by her multiple tattoos, spiked hair and very casual dress.

However, in serving God's people, you've learned in your ministry to spread love, peace and joy, so you let her in. You pleasantly show her around. She meets and visits with some of the other sisters and soon, this rather unusual woman is invited to lunch.

After lunch, the woman hears about a workshop on spirituality being offered the next day, and says she'd like to attend.

Despite her appearance, she seems genuine and it's agreed that she can stay. You expect that soon after the workshop, she'll be on her way. But immediately following the session, the woman announces, "I think I learned a lot and I'd like to stay here for a week and go to the workshop being offered next Saturday."

You've already extended your hand to this woman with no adverse consequences. It's in your heart to help and encourage her. Perhaps she's searching for something more in her life. Maybe she has many hidden gifts to offer. God has sent her to your doorway and now you must decide.

On the other hand, logic tells you that there are con artists in the world and she might be among the best. It could put all the sisters at risk or in danger if you choose to let her continue her stay. Maybe she'll want to extend the visit even longer.

What do you do?