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Talking with kids isn't the same as talking with adults or teenagers. Dealing with children doesn't come naturally to many play therapists. They're more used to talking with older people in their role as counselor, social worker or psychologist.

Some key elements of talking with children are:

  • Talk as much as possible on the level of emotions, rather than logic.
  • Don't assume you know what the child feels.
  • Avoid sounding judgmental.

With each sentence below, explain which guideline was broken. Also, suggest an alternative way to express the same thing.

Imagine you're talking to a six-year-old girl. She is playing rather aggressively with her toys.

  1. Only bad girls throw their toys.
  2. Why are you so mad?
  3. Do you think you're shifting the resentment you feel toward your parents onto that stuffed toy?
  4. How long are you going to carry on like that?
  5. If you're so upset, maybe you should tell me what the problem is.